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Episode 35
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December 24, 2025
Power Exchange vs. Power Over: Ethical Dominance Without Coercion
Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for more deep dives. Power exchange is sexy when it’s chosen. Power over is toxic when it’s stolen. In...
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Episode 34
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December 10, 2025
Top Drop, Sub Drop, and the Neurochemistry of “After”
If you like this episode, check out my mini-course on Drop at https://untamedember.com Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for weekly deep dives. You’ve heard...
00:22:54
Episode 33
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November 26, 2025
Switching Roles, Staying Safe: Consent for Switches
Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for deep dives. Switches get a bad rap as “indecisive” — but the truth is, switching between roles is...
00:23:38
Episode 32
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November 05, 2025
CNC Without Confusion: Ethics, Capacity, and Clear Off-Ramps
Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for deep dives. Consensual non-consent (CNC) is one of the edgiest and most misunderstood areas of kink. Done well,...
00:23:33
Episode 31
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October 08, 2025
Enthusiastic Consent When Words Are Hard
Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for weekly deep dives. “Enthusiastic consent” sounds great — but what if your body doesn’t do loud, verbal yeses?...
00:32:45
Episode 30
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September 11, 2025
SSC, RACK, and PRICK/SSICK: Consent Frameworks for Nervous-System Safety
Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for weekly deep dives. Safe, Sane, and Consensual. Risk-Aware Consensual Kink. Personal Responsibility in Consensual Kink. If you’ve been...
00:32:44