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Episode 30
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September 11, 2025
SSC, RACK, and PRICK/SSICK: Consent Frameworks for Nervous-System Safety
Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for weekly deep dives. Safe, Sane, and Consensual. Risk-Aware Consensual Kink. Personal Responsibility in Consensual Kink. If you’ve been...
00:32:44
Episode 29
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September 03, 2025
ADHD Meds & Sex: When Focus Comes at a Cost
Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for weekly deep dives. ADHD meds can be a lifesaver for focus, productivity, and stability — but no one...
00:26:42
Episode 28
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August 27, 2025
When Your Body Checks Out During Sex (Dissociation, Trauma, and Safety)
Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for weekly deep dives. You want to feel connected, but suddenly you’re gone — body present, mind floating near...
00:17:47
Episode 27
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August 20, 2025
Kink, Neurodivergence, & Safety: Why Structure Feels Sexy to Your Brain
Ever wondered why detailed negotiation, safe words, and scene structure don’t kill the vibe in kink—they actually make it hotter? For neurodivergent and trauma-impacted...
00:19:04
Episode 26
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August 08, 2025
The Sacred Art of Bailing: How to Quit Sh*t That Hurts Your Nervous System
Ever sat in your car outside an event, heart racing, stomach in knots, every cell in your body screaming don’t go in, but guilt...
00:23:52
Episode 25
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July 31, 2025
Touch Starved: When Our Bodies Don’t Want the Same Thing
What happens when your body aches for more touch than your partner, friend, or family can give—or when you crave space while someone else...
00:33:04