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Episode 32
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November 05, 2025
CNC Without Confusion: Ethics, Capacity, and Clear Off-Ramps
Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for deep dives. Consensual non-consent (CNC) is one of the edgiest and most misunderstood areas of kink. Done well,...
00:23:33
Episode 31
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October 08, 2025
Enthusiastic Consent When Words Are Hard
Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for weekly deep dives. “Enthusiastic consent” sounds great — but what if your body doesn’t do loud, verbal yeses?...
00:32:45
Episode 30
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September 11, 2025
SSC, RACK, and PRICK/SSICK: Consent Frameworks for Nervous-System Safety
Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for weekly deep dives. Safe, Sane, and Consensual. Risk-Aware Consensual Kink. Personal Responsibility in Consensual Kink. If you’ve been...
00:32:44
Episode 29
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September 03, 2025
ADHD Meds & Sex: When Focus Comes at a Cost
Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for weekly deep dives. ADHD meds can be a lifesaver for focus, productivity, and stability — but no one...
00:26:42
Episode 28
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August 27, 2025
When Your Body Checks Out During Sex (Dissociation, Trauma, and Safety)
Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for weekly deep dives. You want to feel connected, but suddenly you’re gone — body present, mind floating near...
00:17:47
Episode 27
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August 20, 2025
Kink, Neurodivergence, & Safety: Why Structure Feels Sexy to Your Brain
Ever wondered why detailed negotiation, safe words, and scene structure don’t kill the vibe in kink—they actually make it hotter? For neurodivergent and trauma-impacted...
00:19:04