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Episode 1
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May 11, 2026
You Didn't Choose This: Compulsory Monogamy as Conditioning
Most of us never actually chose monogamy. We inherited it. And the guilt, shame, and hypervigilance that show up when we question it aren't...
00:25:10
Episode 37
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January 29, 2026
Privacy vs Withholding in Non-Monogamy, The Difference That Stops Fights
In non-monogamous relationships, many conflicts are not about jealousy or trust, they are about information. What needs to be shared, what should remain private,...
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Episode 36
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January 07, 2026
Polyamory Does NOT Excuse Poor Behavior
Here's a radical idea: being polyamorous doesn't make you a better person. In this episode of Untamed Ember, Dr. Misty calls out the weaponized...
00:24:38
Episode 35
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December 24, 2025
Power Exchange vs. Power Over: Ethical Dominance Without Coercion
Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for more deep dives. Power exchange is sexy when it’s chosen. Power over is toxic when it’s stolen. In...
00:22:16
Episode 34
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December 10, 2025
Top Drop, Sub Drop, and the Neurochemistry of “After”
If you like this episode, check out my mini-course on Drop at https://untamedember.com Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for weekly deep dives. You’ve heard...
00:22:54
Episode 33
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November 26, 2025
Switching Roles, Staying Safe: Consent for Switches
Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for deep dives. Switches get a bad rap as “indecisive” — but the truth is, switching between roles is...
00:23:38