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Untamed Ember

Welcome to Untamed Ember, the podcast where pleasure is your birthright, curiosity is your compass, and unlearning shame is part of the foreplay. Hosted by Dr. Misty, Untamed Ember brings real, unfiltered conversations about sex,...more

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Neurodivergence & Ethical Non-Monogamy: When Standard Relationship Advice Doesn't Fit

Episode 8

September 24, 2026

Neurodivergence & Ethical Non-Monogamy: When Standard Relationship Advice Doesn't Fit

What if the problem isn’t that you’re bad at ethical non-monogamy, but that the advice you’ve been given was built for a nervous system...

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00:30:16

Co-Regulation in Polyamory: Finding Your Own Ground Before You Find Each Other

Episode 7

September 10, 2026

Co-Regulation in Polyamory: Finding Your Own Ground Before You Find Each Other

Co-regulation is one of the ways human nervous systems find safety with each other. But what happens when one partner becomes your only reliable...

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00:31:52

Why You Can't Force Compersion (The Nervous System Science of ENM)

Episode 6

August 20, 2026

Why You Can't Force Compersion (The Nervous System Science of ENM)

Compersion has turned into a merit badge. Feel it, prove it, post about it, and if you don't feel it yet, apparently something's wrong...

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00:31:02

Attachment Styles in Polyamory: Your Body Remembered

Episode 5

July 23, 2026

Attachment Styles in Polyamory: Your Body Remembered

Knowing your attachment style doesn't fix anything. You can take the quiz, read every book, and announce yourself as "anxiously attached" at dinner, and...

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00:18:02

Jealousy Is Information (Your Nervous System Has Been Trying to Tell You Something)

Episode 4

July 09, 2026

Jealousy Is Information (Your Nervous System Has Been Trying to Tell You Something)

You said you were fine with it. You thought you were fine with it. And then your partner went on a date and you...

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00:34:39

Opening Up Without Blowing it Up

Episode 3

June 25, 2026

Opening Up Without Blowing it Up

You said yes to opening your relationship. And then something happened in your body that you didn't expect. That's not your nervous system telling...

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