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Episode 10
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November 05, 2026
Hierarchical vs. Non-Hierarchical Polyamory: What Actually Makes It Ethical?
Is hierarchical polyamory inherently unethical? Is non-hierarchical polyamory automatically the healthier choice? Not even close. In this episode of Untamed Ember, Dr. Misty takes...
00:26:27
Episode 9
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October 22, 2026
Relationship Anarchy Explained: What It Really Takes to Build Relationships Without Hierarchy
What is relationship anarchy, and does it really mean having no rules, labels, or commitments? Relationship anarchy is often misunderstood as a relationship philosophy...
00:26:00
Episode 8
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September 24, 2026
Neurodivergence & Ethical Non-Monogamy: When Standard Relationship Advice Doesn't Fit
What if the problem isn’t that you’re bad at ethical non-monogamy, but that the advice you’ve been given was built for a nervous system...
00:30:16
Episode 7
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September 10, 2026
Co-Regulation in Polyamory: Finding Your Own Ground Before You Find Each Other
Co-regulation is one of the ways human nervous systems find safety with each other. But what happens when one partner becomes your only reliable...
00:31:52
Episode 6
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August 20, 2026
Why You Can't Force Compersion (The Nervous System Science of ENM)
Compersion has turned into a merit badge. Feel it, prove it, post about it, and if you don't feel it yet, apparently something's wrong...
00:31:02
Episode 5
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July 23, 2026
Attachment Styles in Polyamory: Your Body Remembered
Knowing your attachment style doesn't fix anything. You can take the quiz, read every book, and announce yourself as "anxiously attached" at dinner, and...
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