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Episode 3
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June 25, 2026
Opening Up Without Blowing it Up
You said yes to opening your relationship. And then something happened in your body that you didn't expect. That's not your nervous system telling...
00:43:04
Episode 2
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May 28, 2026
Stop Making Rules, Start Making Agreements
Rules and agreements sound like the same thing in ENM. They are not. In this episode, Dr. Misty breaks down one of the most...
00:28:32
Episode 1
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May 11, 2026
You Didn't Choose This: Compulsory Monogamy as Conditioning
Most of us never actually chose monogamy. We inherited it. And the guilt, shame, and hypervigilance that show up when we question it aren't...
00:25:10
Episode 37
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January 29, 2026
Privacy vs Withholding in Non-Monogamy, The Difference That Stops Fights
In non-monogamous relationships, many conflicts are not about jealousy or trust, they are about information. What needs to be shared, what should remain private,...
00:24:20
Episode 36
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January 07, 2026
Polyamory Does NOT Excuse Poor Behavior
Here's a radical idea: being polyamorous doesn't make you a better person. In this episode of Untamed Ember, Dr. Misty calls out the weaponized...
00:24:38
Episode 35
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December 24, 2025
Power Exchange vs. Power Over: Ethical Dominance Without Coercion
Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for more deep dives. Power exchange is sexy when it’s chosen. Power over is toxic when it’s stolen. In...
00:22:16