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Untamed Ember

Welcome to Untamed Ember, the podcast where pleasure is your birthright, curiosity is your compass, and unlearning shame is part of the foreplay. Hosted by Dr. Misty, Untamed Ember brings real, unfiltered conversations about sex,...more

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Switching Roles, Staying Safe: Consent for Switches

Episode 33

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November 26, 2025

Switching Roles, Staying Safe: Consent for Switches

Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for deep dives. Switches get a bad rap as “indecisive” — but the truth is, switching between roles is...

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CNC Without Confusion: Ethics, Capacity, and Clear Off-Ramps

Episode 32

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November 05, 2025

CNC Without Confusion: Ethics, Capacity, and Clear Off-Ramps

Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for deep dives. Consensual non-consent (CNC) is one of the edgiest and most misunderstood areas of kink. Done well,...

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00:23:33

Enthusiastic Consent When Words Are Hard

Episode 31

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October 08, 2025

Enthusiastic Consent When Words Are Hard

Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for weekly deep dives. “Enthusiastic consent” sounds great — but what if your body doesn’t do loud, verbal yeses?...

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00:32:45

SSC, RACK, and PRICK/SSICK: Consent Frameworks for Nervous-System Safety

Episode 30

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September 11, 2025

SSC, RACK, and PRICK/SSICK: Consent Frameworks for Nervous-System Safety

Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for weekly deep dives. Safe, Sane, and Consensual. Risk-Aware Consensual Kink. Personal Responsibility in Consensual Kink. If you’ve been...

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00:32:44

ADHD Meds & Sex: When Focus Comes at a Cost

Episode 29

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September 03, 2025

ADHD Meds & Sex: When Focus Comes at a Cost

Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for weekly deep dives. ADHD meds can be a lifesaver for focus, productivity, and stability — but no one...

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00:26:42

When Your Body Checks Out During Sex (Dissociation, Trauma, and Safety)

Episode 28

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August 27, 2025

When Your Body Checks Out During Sex (Dissociation, Trauma, and Safety)

Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for weekly deep dives. You want to feel connected, but suddenly you’re gone — body present, mind floating near...

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