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Untamed Ember

Welcome to Untamed Ember, the podcast where pleasure is your birthright, curiosity is your compass, and unlearning shame is part of the foreplay. Hosted by Dr. Misty, Untamed Ember brings real, unfiltered conversations about sex,...more

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When Your Body Checks Out During Sex (Dissociation, Trauma, and Safety)

Episode 28

August 27, 2025

When Your Body Checks Out During Sex (Dissociation, Trauma, and Safety)

Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for weekly deep dives. You want to feel connected, but suddenly you’re gone — body present, mind floating near...

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Kink, Neurodivergence, & Safety: Why Structure Feels Sexy to Your Brain

Episode 27

August 20, 2025

Kink, Neurodivergence, & Safety: Why Structure Feels Sexy to Your Brain

Ever wondered why detailed negotiation, safe words, and scene structure don’t kill the vibe in kink—they actually make it hotter? For neurodivergent and trauma-impacted...

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The Sacred Art of Bailing: How to Quit Sh*t That Hurts Your Nervous System

Episode 26

August 08, 2025

The Sacred Art of Bailing: How to Quit Sh*t That Hurts Your Nervous System

Ever sat in your car outside an event, heart racing, stomach in knots, every cell in your body screaming don’t go in, but guilt...

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Touch Starved: When Our Bodies Don’t Want the Same Thing

Episode 25

July 31, 2025

Touch Starved: When Our Bodies Don’t Want the Same Thing

What happens when your body aches for more touch than your partner, friend, or family can give—or when you crave space while someone else...

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Time Warp: How ADHD Messes with Waiting, Talking, and Everything In Between

Episode 24

July 23, 2025

Time Warp: How ADHD Messes with Waiting, Talking, and Everything In Between

Is waiting agony for you? Do you feel anxious when a conversation goes quiet, or does time vanish when you’re hyperfocused? In this episode...

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Ghosts in the Bedroom: How Inherited Shame Lives in Your Fascia (Introducing SOFT)

Episode 23

July 16, 2025

Ghosts in the Bedroom: How Inherited Shame Lives in Your Fascia (Introducing SOFT)

Subscribe to the Untamed Ember newsletter for free resources, weekly insights, and more SOFT practices: untamedember.kit.com. Are you haunted by old stories in your...

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