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Untamed Ember

Welcome to Untamed Ember, the podcast where pleasure is your birthright, curiosity is your compass, and unlearning shame is part of the foreplay. I’m Dr. Misty, an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist & Supervisor, clinically licensed...more

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Touch Starved: When Our Bodies Don’t Want the Same Thing

Episode 25

July 31, 2025

Touch Starved: When Our Bodies Don’t Want the Same Thing

What happens when your body aches for more touch than your partner, friend, or family can give—or when you crave space while someone else...

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Time Warp: How ADHD Messes with Waiting, Talking, and Everything In Between

Episode 24

July 23, 2025

Time Warp: How ADHD Messes with Waiting, Talking, and Everything In Between

Is waiting agony for you? Do you feel anxious when a conversation goes quiet, or does time vanish when you’re hyperfocused? In this episode...

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Ghosts in the Bedroom: How Inherited Shame Lives in Your Fascia (Introducing SOFT)

Episode 23

July 16, 2025

Ghosts in the Bedroom: How Inherited Shame Lives in Your Fascia (Introducing SOFT)

Subscribe to the Untamed Ember newsletter for free resources, weekly insights, and more SOFT practices: untamedember.kit.com. Are you haunted by old stories in your...

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Parts Work for Perverts: When Your Inner Critic Shows Up in Bed

Episode 22

July 09, 2025

Parts Work for Perverts: When Your Inner Critic Shows Up in Bed

Grab your FREE content and weekly shame-smashing resources at untamedember.kit.com — where every part of you belongs. — Ever notice that right when things...

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Your Vagus Nerve is Cockblocking You: How to Hack Your Sexual Nervous System

Episode 21

July 02, 2025

Your Vagus Nerve is Cockblocking You: How to Hack Your Sexual Nervous System

Get weekly, radical resources and bonus episodes free at untamedember.kit.com — Your pleasure deserves better. — Ever wondered why your brain is a full...

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Sex, Safety, and Spacing Out: How to Love Someone Who Dissociates During Intimacy

Episode 20

June 25, 2025

Sex, Safety, and Spacing Out: How to Love Someone Who Dissociates During Intimacy

Ever had sex with a partner who was physically present but clearly somewhere else? Welcome to the “What the Fuck Just Happened?” club. This...

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