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Untamed Ember

Welcome to Untamed Ember, the podcast where pleasure is your birthright, curiosity is your compass, and unlearning shame is part of the foreplay. I’m Dr. Misty, an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist & Supervisor, clinically licensed...more

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Messy, Angry, Whole: When Healing Becomes Performance

Episode 13

April 30, 2025

Messy, Angry, Whole: When Healing Becomes Performance

What if your healing doesn’t look calm, graceful, or Instagram-worthy—and that’s exactly what makes it real? In this episode, Dr. Misty rips into the...

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Binary Scripts, Nervous Systems, & the Erotic Brain: Why You’re Not “Broken” for Wanting More

Episode 12

April 20, 2025

Binary Scripts, Nervous Systems, & the Erotic Brain: Why You’re Not “Broken” for Wanting More

What if your nervous system isn’t the problem—just the scripts it’s been forced to follow? In this episode of Untamed Ember, Dr. Misty takes...

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Unscripted & Unbothered: Why Your Sex Drive Isn’t Broken—Just Overbooked

Episode 11

April 19, 2025

Unscripted & Unbothered: Why Your Sex Drive Isn’t Broken—Just Overbooked

What if your low libido isn’t about dysfunction—it’s about burnout from playing someone else’s fantasy? In this episode of Untamed Ember, Dr. Misty burns...

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How Shame Hijacks the Senses (and How to Take Them Back)

Episode 10

April 11, 2025

How Shame Hijacks the Senses (and How to Take Them Back)

If you’ve ever dissociated mid-orgasm, gone numb during touch, or hyper-focused on your partner’s reaction instead of your own desire—this one’s for you. In...

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Why Your Body Got Scripted to Shrink

Episode 9

April 10, 2025

Why Your Body Got Scripted to Shrink

You weren’t born hating your thighs. That sht was planted—fertilized with shame, wrapped in diet tips, and handed to you like a cursed heirloom....

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Your Brain on Purity Culture (It's Not a Vibe)

Episode 8

April 05, 2025

Your Brain on Purity Culture (It's Not a Vibe)

Purity culture isn’t just morally outdated—it’s neurologically confusing. In this raw and science-backed episode, Dr. Misty breaks down how sexual shame hijacks your nervous...

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